Weight Loss – What do you believe? (part 2)
This is a short extract from ‘Weight loss in Mind’ by Janet Thomson:
Beliefs are formed during childhood. When we are children we believe we are capable of absolutely anything until the grown ups teach us otherwise and start putting limits on our behaviour.
• don’t touch the oven
• don’t run across the road
• don’t go near the waters edge
We are taught not to do so many things that it becomes almost second nature to think about everything in negative terms: Even though these are very “good” instructions that teach us how to be safe, taking this concept into every aspect of our life i.e. focusing on what we “Can’t do” can lead to us developing a string of negative beliefs.
When you fail at something more than once, it can lead to a belief that you will never be able to do it. Once you believe you cannot do something you stop trying, in-fact you often subconsciously avoid anything connected with this “thing” to protect yourself against the pain of failure: in this way your negative or limiting belief becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. You think you can’t, therefore you can’t.
The nature of limiting beliefs is that once you have them you “honour” them in a way that stops you progressing or achieving what you truly desire. What don’t you believe you can achieve?
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